Événement | Âge | Situation ou événement de la vie - Qu'est-ce qui vous a amené à franchir une barrière dans votre progression vers un comportement sexuel problématique? | Activités ou actions - Décrivez les comportements que vous avez adoptés. | Comment vous sentiez-vous à ce moment-là? | Le fait d'utiliser Internet ou d'avoir des fantasmes envers les personnes mineures a-t-il changé votre façon de penser? De quelle manière? Retrouvez les pensées qui accompagnaient régulièrement chaque activité. |
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Référence : Module 1A - Comprendre pourquoi
Propriété intellectuelle : The Lucy Faithfull Foundation
Sous chaque jour, noircissez la colonne grise pour indiquer les heures que vous avez passées en ligne ou celles où vous avez eu des fantasmes.
La colonne blanche à côté sert à inscrire la nature de votre activité en ligne ou de vos fantasmes. Du contenu illégal sera inscrit en ROUGE, du contenu à haut risque en JAUNE et du contenu à faible risque en VERT.
Vous pouvez inclure la façon dont vous vous sentez pour mieux voir ce qui se passe
Psychologists have tried to look at what it means to the minor to be photographed and for these photographs to be used in a sexual way (e.g. fantasy and/or masturbation, etc.).
While it is convenient to think about photography as being separate from the actual abuse, for the majority of minors this is not the case. Very often being photographed is PART OF the abuse; victims see the lasting photographic evidence as a continuation of the abuse they experienced.
Knowing that images of them are circulating on the web, and that strangers use these photographs for inappropriate sexual purposes, causes ongoing victimization for the minors involved.
Before continuing, you might find it helpful to view this short video clip of an individual explaining his realization of the harm to minors, as a result of his own online behaviour.
Abuse can produce physical symptoms, such as urinary infections and soreness around the genitalia or anus, headaches and vomiting. Depression, tiredness, difficulties in concentrating and nightmares are also common in such minors. It can also lead to other problems, such as the minor behaving or talking in a sexual way, acting out or behaving aggressively, as well as impacting on their relationships with other children and adult relationships when they are older.
As with all forms of sexual abuse, minors are reluctant to talk about what has happened. This may be very convenient for the adults involved but increases the chance that the inor will have problems in the future, such as depression or inability to form trusting or loving relationships with other adults. When the abuse is photographed, this seems to increase the minor’s fear of talking about what has happened. Disclosures, when possibly made, are often limited, with the minor only telling as much as they feel the person questioning them already knows. Feelings of shame, humiliation and helplessness are often accompanied by feelings of anxiety, with the minor worried that the photograph may be viewed as evidence of co-operation on their part. The minor may also feel that the fact that they were smiling may be seen as evidence that he or she was enjoying the experience when they were being coerced or forced to smile.
The long-term consequences of having been photographed can include: