Événement | Âge | Situation ou événement de la vie - Qu'est-ce qui vous a amené à franchir une barrière dans votre progression vers un comportement sexuel problématique? | Activités ou actions - Décrivez les comportements que vous avez adoptés. | Comment vous sentiez-vous à ce moment-là? | Le fait d'utiliser Internet ou d'avoir des fantasmes envers les personnes mineures a-t-il changé votre façon de penser? De quelle manière? Retrouvez les pensées qui accompagnaient régulièrement chaque activité. |
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Référence : Module 1A - Comprendre pourquoi
Propriété intellectuelle : The Lucy Faithfull Foundation
Sous chaque jour, noircissez la colonne grise pour indiquer les heures que vous avez passées en ligne ou celles où vous avez eu des fantasmes.
La colonne blanche à côté sert à inscrire la nature de votre activité en ligne ou de vos fantasmes. Du contenu illégal sera inscrit en ROUGE, du contenu à haut risque en JAUNE et du contenu à faible risque en VERT.
Vous pouvez inclure la façon dont vous vous sentez pour mieux voir ce qui se passe
‘Consent’ means to give permission for something to happen. It is important for us to consider the issue of consent when we are talking about the minors in the images because minors, by nature, are not able to consent to sexual activity.
Before continuing with this section, you may find it useful to watch this short video which describes one man’s experience of coming to terms with the harm that this behaviour can cause to the minors in the images.
Minors are not able to give consent because they cannot fully understand what they are consenting to, or the emotional impact and consequences of sex. Adults are generally able to give informed consent about sexual activity and photographs of them, unless they are under the influence of alcohol or drugs or have some kind of vulnerability. Some people disagree about the age that minors are mature enough to be able to give this permission. However, in Canada, the age of consent for sexual activity is 16. But any sexual picture of a person under 18 years old is illegal.
Children are not able to give consent to engage in sexual activity, and consent is further taken away from children when sexual images of them are taken and posted on the Internet. Once an image is posted online, all control is lost over that image. The victim will experience further abuse with the knowledge that their picture is out there, being shared and viewed, beyond their control.
What did you look at online?
The idea of justifications can also be extended to the type, or category, of sexual image you are looking at online. It is important to remember that any sexual image of someone under 18 years old is illegal.
These are all illegal when used for sexual purposes:
These images are abusive when used for sexual purposes.
The reality is that any sexual image of a minor, used for sexual purposes, is illegal. Abuse includes the victimization when the photograph was taken. Abuse also includes the continuing victimization the minor will experience knowing that they cannot control the images of them on the Internet and these images are used for sexual reasons.
The reality of viewing naturists, modelling or cartoon images is that this behaviour may act as a ‘slippery slope.’ These sorts of images might act to reinforce sexual interest in minors and lead the person viewing the images to become curious about what other sorts of material might be available. When minors are depicted in images either on their own or with other minors, where no adult is present in the image, it is important that you remind yourself that an adult will have been behind that camera. An adult will have coerced the minor(s) into posing for the camera and an adult will have taken and shared that photograph to be used for a sexual purpose.
Regarding self-taken sexual images of minors, it is important to remember that even though the minor may have consented to taking the photograph in the first place, they almost certainly will not have consented to the worldwide sharing of that image. Minors do not have the foresight to understand the consequences that sending an image of themselves may bring. They do not understand that once an image is sent that it cannot be retrieved. Once the reality of this becomes known, it can be very distressing and have a significant emotional impact on them.
Consent is further removed from minors if there is a power difference between them and the person who is inciting sexual activity. It is not uncommon for minors to be sexually exploited as a part of the process of producing illegal images – for example, by receiving gifts, drugs, affection or accommodation – in exchange for engaging in sexual activity.
Sometimes pictures are taken of minors without them knowing – for example, at the beach – and sometimes pictures are taken with the minor’s knowledge. Sometimes a minor will be coerced into taking and posting an image of themselves, without fully realizing the consequences of doing this.
As part of this section in helping you recognize and acknowledge that the minors in the images are real persons, it is helpful – although difficult – to get yourself to think about how that minor got to be in that situation of being in front of that camera. This is what we will be asking you to consider in the following exercise.