Événement | Âge | Situation ou événement de la vie - Qu'est-ce qui vous a amené à franchir une barrière dans votre progression vers un comportement sexuel problématique? | Activités ou actions - Décrivez les comportements que vous avez adoptés. | Comment vous sentiez-vous à ce moment-là? | Le fait d'utiliser Internet ou d'avoir des fantasmes envers les personnes mineures a-t-il changé votre façon de penser? De quelle manière? Retrouvez les pensées qui accompagnaient régulièrement chaque activité. |
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1. Premier souvenir d'excitation sexuelle
8. Situation actuelle
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Référence : Module 1A - Comprendre pourquoi
Propriété intellectuelle : The Lucy Faithfull Foundation
Sous chaque jour, noircissez la colonne grise pour indiquer les heures que vous avez passées en ligne ou celles où vous avez eu des fantasmes.
La colonne blanche à côté sert à inscrire la nature de votre activité en ligne ou de vos fantasmes. Du contenu illégal sera inscrit en ROUGE, du contenu à haut risque en JAUNE et du contenu à faible risque en VERT.
Vous pouvez inclure la façon dont vous vous sentez pour mieux voir ce qui se passe
Ça suffit is for people who are suffering from sexual fantasies towards minors. Our mission is to provide support services to reduce the emotional distress experienced by these individuals and to prevent sexual offences.
The helpline aims to offer you an active, anonymous and confidential listening service.
Opening hours of the helpline:
Monday to Thursday from 9 AM to 6 PM
1-844-654-3111
The self-help modules on the website aim to help you better understand your fantasies and problematic sexual behaviour. This individual work allows you to take it one step at a time, at your own pace, and also includes reflective tools to help you develop a positive and healthy relationship with sexuality.
Here are a few misconceptions that are often raised in discussions with our users and which are completely refutable.
People with problematic sexual fantasies can be male or female; heterosexual, homosexual or bisexual; in a relationship or single; of any ethnic group; or of varying socio-economic status.
Sexual assault is a multifactorial phenomenon, but it is not a problem of uncontrollable sexual urges. Everyone is able to control their actions. Similarly, a large majority (between 70% and 80%) of child sex offences are said to be premeditated, which runs counter to the thesis of the drives and lack of control of child sex offenders. Women can also be responsible for sexual assault.
People with problematic sexual fantasies can be anyone (lover, ex-boyfriend, neighbour, friend, family member, etc.). For the vast majority, these people function normally in society. Following treatment, a minority of these people will commit a sexual offence.
In the public, the term pedophile is often misused to refer to anyone who sexually assaults a child, whereas in fact a minority of those who sexually assault minors meet the criteria for a diagnosis of pedophilia. Finally, the majority of paedophiles have never committed sexual offences and, conversely, only a minority of sexual abusers are paedophiles. Finally, the majority of paedophiles have never committed sexual offences and, conversely, only a minority of sexual abusers are paedophiles. It is also important to differentiate between pedophilia (attraction to prepubescent children) and hebephilia (attraction to pubescent children).
Finally, some people, although they have committed sexual offences against children, have a sexual attraction that is not limited to children. They may also be sexually attracted to adults.
Some people may feel that there was no crime because it happened at a distance (on the Internet) and not in person. However, exposing oneself on the Internet, inciting minors to do so, or viewing sexually explicit images/videos of minors is no less serious than assaulting a child in real life.
It is a sexual offence, in the same way as a sexual offence against a physical victim, since the context in which the images/videos were produced constitutes a context of abuse.
Welcome to the Ça suffit website. We are happy to welcome you. Please note that this is an entirely anonymous site whose main objective is to support you in your questioning, your approach or your need for help. This site does not record your activities and is not linked to any monitoring by any authority, whether police, judicial or otherwise. Furthermore, remember that YOU CAN ESCAPE THIS SITE AT ANY TIME BY CLICKING ON THE VARIOUS BUTTONS labelled CLICK TO ESCAPE. The modules we invite you to explore are not a substitute for regular follow-up with a professional. We want to help you make certain changes in your life, so that you do not put into action your desires, thoughts or fantasies about minors.
It is important to know that sexual thoughts, fantasies or desires about minors are not criminal; you have the right to consult a professional and ask for help, as this is a difficulty clearly recognized in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), which is referred to by the specific community. However, the actual act of abuse is a criminal act. The consequences of sexual abuse are devastating for the person who is abused, in addition to the negative consequences for you and your family, and can cause repercussions in other areas of your life.
If, while browsing the Ça suffit website, you feel the need to talk about it anonymously, call the helpline at 1-844-654-3111. The Ça suffit team members are there to listen to you or offer confidential help with your concerns about your desires, thoughts or fantasies about minors. And if, after several visits to the Ça suffit website or phone calls to the helpline, you feel that your concerns, desires, thoughts or fantasies about minors are growing to the point where you feel you are going to give in and act on them, DO NOT GIVE UP AND MAKE AN APPOINTMENT WITH A PROFESSIONAL QUICKLY, either by video conference (Internet) or in person. The people assigned to the helpline will even be able to direct you to resources to facilitate your approach.
You are always welcome.
The Ça suffit team
Inspired by the “Stop It Now!” helpline established in 2002 in the United Kingdom, Ça suffit is its Quebec adaptation. Stop It Now! UK was founded thanks to the Lucy Faithfull Foundation, a child protection charity dedicated to preventing child sexual abuse. The Ça suffit team worked with Stop It Now! UK to provide a French version of their content.
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