Événement | Âge | Situation ou événement de la vie - Qu'est-ce qui vous a amené à franchir une barrière dans votre progression vers un comportement sexuel problématique? | Activités ou actions - Décrivez les comportements que vous avez adoptés. | Comment vous sentiez-vous à ce moment-là? | Le fait d'utiliser Internet ou d'avoir des fantasmes envers les personnes mineures a-t-il changé votre façon de penser? De quelle manière? Retrouvez les pensées qui accompagnaient régulièrement chaque activité. |
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1. Premier souvenir d'excitation sexuelle
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Référence : Module 1A - Comprendre pourquoi
Propriété intellectuelle : The Lucy Faithfull Foundation
Sous chaque jour, noircissez la colonne grise pour indiquer les heures que vous avez passées en ligne ou celles où vous avez eu des fantasmes.
La colonne blanche à côté sert à inscrire la nature de votre activité en ligne ou de vos fantasmes. Du contenu illégal sera inscrit en ROUGE, du contenu à haut risque en JAUNE et du contenu à faible risque en VERT.
Vous pouvez inclure la façon dont vous vous sentez pour mieux voir ce qui se passe
It refers to the former term “child pornography.” Child pornography refers to any photographic, filmed or other representation of a person under the age of 18 years depicted or engaged in explicit sexual activity (section 163.1 of the Criminal Code). We prefer to use the term “images of sexual exploitation of minors” so as not to minimize the impact on victims through the term “pornography.”
https://laws-lois.justice.gc.ca/eng/acts/c-46/section-163.1.html
In Quebec, the age of majority is 18. Any person under the age of 18 is therefore considered a child or a minor for the purposes of youth protection.
Any image, thought or scenario of a sexual nature that occurs in the mind leading to sexual arousal.
Watching an unsuspecting person, with clothes on or naked, undressing or having sex. (According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders—DSM-5)
The act of displaying one’s genitals in front of someone who is caught off guard. (According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders—DSM-5)
Who has not given free and informed consent in accordance with Section 273.1 et seq. of the Criminal Code.
https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/cj-jp/victims-victimes/def.html
Violence is present when an act (words, writing, gestures, either obvious or subtle) is intentionally committed against another person and may result in consequences for that person (anxiety, loss of property, trauma, psychological damage, developmental problems, physical injury, death). This includes all forms of abuse: psychological, verbal, physical, sexual or economic.
https://www.quebec.ca/en/family-and-support-for-individuals/violences/forms-violence
Welcome to the Ça suffit website. We are happy to welcome you. Please note that this is an entirely anonymous site whose main objective is to support you in your questioning, your approach or your need for help. This site does not record your activities and is not linked to any monitoring by any authority, whether police, judicial or otherwise. Furthermore, remember that YOU CAN ESCAPE THIS SITE AT ANY TIME BY CLICKING ON THE VARIOUS BUTTONS labelled CLICK TO ESCAPE. The modules we invite you to explore are not a substitute for regular follow-up with a professional. We want to help you make certain changes in your life, so that you do not put into action your desires, thoughts or fantasies about minors.
It is important to know that sexual thoughts, fantasies or desires about minors are not criminal; you have the right to consult a professional and ask for help, as this is a difficulty clearly recognized in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), which is referred to by the specific community. However, the actual act of abuse is a criminal act. The consequences of sexual abuse are devastating for the person who is abused, in addition to the negative consequences for you and your family, and can cause repercussions in other areas of your life.
If, while browsing the Ça suffit website, you feel the need to talk about it anonymously, call the helpline at 1-844-654-3111. The Ça suffit team members are there to listen to you or offer confidential help with your concerns about your desires, thoughts or fantasies about minors. And if, after several visits to the Ça suffit website or phone calls to the helpline, you feel that your concerns, desires, thoughts or fantasies about minors are growing to the point where you feel you are going to give in and act on them, DO NOT GIVE UP AND MAKE AN APPOINTMENT WITH A PROFESSIONAL QUICKLY, either by video conference (Internet) or in person. The people assigned to the helpline will even be able to direct you to resources to facilitate your approach.
You are always welcome.
The Ça suffit team
Inspired by the “Stop It Now!” helpline established in 2002 in the United Kingdom, Ça suffit is its Quebec adaptation. Stop It Now! UK was founded thanks to the Lucy Faithfull Foundation, a child protection charity dedicated to preventing child sexual abuse. The Ça suffit team worked with Stop It Now! UK to provide a French version of their content.
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